Can the school punish me for staying silent?.
This is the question at the centre of every parallel proceeding, and the answer has a formal half and a practical half that point in different directions.
The formal position.
The regulations require a presumption that the respondent is not responsible until a determination is made at the conclusion of the grievance process, and nothing permits an institution to sanction a party for declining to participate. A respondent who says nothing has not violated any rule, and a determination that expressly reasons from silence to responsibility is departing from the presumption - which is an appeal ground worth stating.
The practical position.
The process does not stop. It proceeds on the evidence before it and applies the standard of proof, which in a case where the only account is the complainant’s produces a predictable result. That is not a penalty for silence in any formal sense; it is the arithmetic of an uncontested record. Pretending otherwise does respondents no favours.
What the carve-out changed.
As promulgated, the rule barred reliance on statements from anyone who did not submit to cross-examination. That provision was vacated in 2021. The consequence for a silent respondent is that their earlier statements - an intake conversation, an email, a first interview - remain available to the decision-maker whether or not they appear. Silence going forward does not retract what was already said.
The posture that resolves it.
Attend. Let your advisor conduct a full cross-examination. File the ten-day evidence response and the report response, both of which are argument rather than testimony and give a prosecutor nothing. State once, courteously and on the record, that you are not answering questions. Where a criminal matter is open, request a good-cause delay before any of this - because a delay granted removes the dilemma entirely.
Why you should call us.
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