How a complaint is actually withdrawn.
Respondents hear that a complainant wants to withdraw and treat it as an ending. Procedurally it is a request that opens a discretionary decision, and the distinction has consequences.
Request, decision, notice.
The complainant notifies the coordinator in writing of a desire to withdraw the formal complaint or particular allegations within it. The coordinator may then dismiss - the rule is permissive. If dismissal follows, the institution must send written notice of the dismissal and the reasons for it simultaneously to both parties. That notice and its stated basis are documents worth obtaining, whichever way the decision goes.
Appeal, both ways.
Both parties may appeal a dismissal on the same grounds available for a determination. That means a granted withdrawal is not automatically the end of the matter, and it also means a refusal to dismiss is reviewable. Respondents rarely appeal a refusal, and where a withdrawal request was made and declined without adequate reasoning, that is a procedural argument worth preserving.
The coordinator-signed complaint.
Where an institution believes it must respond - because of a safety concern, other reports, or a pattern - it can sign a formal complaint itself. The process then continues with the coordinator as the party who initiated it, and the complainant is under no obligation to participate. The practical result for a respondent is a case built substantially on second-hand accounts and institutional records, which is harder in one sense and evidentially weaker in another.
Why your posture does not change.
Until a dismissal notice arrives, the matter is live. Preservation continues, the written record continues, and the hearing preparation continues. What must not change under any circumstances is the contact rule: this is the situation in which respondents most often reach out to thank or encourage a complainant, and that message is interference, documented, timestamped, and the count most likely to be sustained against you.
Why you should call us.
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