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People Vs Joseph Amico

Covered by NYDaily News. Las Vegas man accused of threatening a prominent attorney and making vile remarks.

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People Vs. Anna Sorokin

Covered by New York Times, and other outlets. Fake heiress accused of conning the city’s wealthy, and has an HBO special being made about her.

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Accused of stalking Alec Baldwin. The case garnered nationwide attention, with USAToday, NYPost, and other media outlets following it closely.

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Juror who prompted calls for new Ghislaine Maxwell trial turns to lawyer who defended Anna Sorokin.

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WE PROVIDE WHITE GLOVE SERVICE TO CLIENTS
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The Spodek Law Group understands how delicate high-profile cases can be, and has a strong track record of getting positive outcomes. Our lawyers service a clientele that is nationwide. With offices in both LA and NYC, and cases all across the country - Spodek Law Group is a top tier law firm.

Todd Spodek is a second generation attorney with immense experience. He has many years of experience handling 100’s of tough and hard to win trials. He’s been featured on major news outlets, such as New York Post, Newsweek, Fox 5 New York, South China Morning Post, Insider.com, and many others.

In 2022, Netflix released a series about one of Todd’s clients: Anna Delvey/Anna Sorokin.

Why Clients Choose Spodek Law Group

The reason is simple: clients want white glove service, and lawyers who can win. Every single client who works with the Spodek Law Group is aware that the attorney they hire could drastically change the outcome of their case. Hiring the Spodek Law Group means you’re taking your future seriously. Our lawyers handle cases nationwide, ranging from NYC to LA. Our philosophy is fair and simple: our nyc criminal lawyers only take on clients who we know will benefit from our services.

We’re selective about the clients we work with, and only take on cases we know align with our experience – and where we can make a difference. This is different from other law firms who are not invested in your success nor care about your outcome.

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Divorcing A Narcissist: Tips, Tools, and What To Expect

Navigating the treacherous waters of divorce from a narcissistic partner can be a daunting and emotionally draining task. But with the right knowledge and preparation, you can arm yourself against the manipulations and deceit of your spouse, and emerge victorious in the battle for your children, your assets, and your sanity.

Brace Yourself for the Smear Campaign
When you tell your narcissistic spouse that you want a divorce, you can expect them to launch a vicious attack on your character and reputation. They will twist the truth, spread lies, and enlist anyone who will listen in their quest to paint you as the villain in the story of your marriage. They may try to convince your children, your friends, and even your family members that you are the one who is to blame for the breakdown of the marriage. But you must remain calm and composed, and resist the urge to defend yourself. Your spouse is trying to provoke you into a reaction, and if you lose your temper, you may inadvertently bolster their allegations. Instead, rely on your divorce lawyer to handle the matter, and let them use their expertise to expose your spouse’s tactics and reveal their true nature in court.

Watch Out for the Parental Alienation Tactics
A narcissistic partner will stop at nothing to win the divorce battle, and they may use your children as pawns in their quest for power and control. They may try to turn your kids against you by manipulating their emotions and exploiting their vulnerabilities. They may also try to paint you as an inattentive or neglectful parent, even if it is they who are the absent ones in their children’s lives. To protect yourself and your children from these tactics, it is crucial to keep a log of all missed visitations, unanswered telephone calls, and other instances when your ex-partner failed to show up. This evidence will help you to refute their false allegations and demonstrate your commitment to your children. And with the help of a skilled divorce lawyer, you can force your spouse to admit the truth and reveal their true nature as an emotionally unavailable and manipulative parent.

If you’re facing the unfortunate reality of a divorce with a narcissistic spouse, be prepared for a long and arduous court battle. Narcissists, plagued by the symptoms of their personality disorder, are notoriously unwilling to compromise or empathize with their partner’s perspective. This makes attempts at settling or mediating the divorce almost certain to fail. Their lack of conflict resolution skills and insatiable need to be right and win at all costs, make them formidable opponents in a legal setting.

But don’t despair. There are steps you can take to tilt the odds in your favor. First and foremost, seek out an experienced family law attorney who has dealt with narcissistic spouses before. They will be an invaluable asset in your corner, able to skillfully navigate the tricky waters of revealing your spouse’s true nature in court.

Next, begin keeping detailed notes about all interactions with your spouse. Document their relationship with your children, and make a list of anyone who can attest to their behavior towards you and your family. The more information you can provide your attorney, the better equipped they will be to question your spouse in court and refute any false narratives they may try to spin.

Additionally, it’s important to be vigilant and not fall prey to your spouse’s manipulation tactics. Keep written records of all communication, and don’t let them bait you into arguments or agreements that aren’t in your best interest. Consider retaining your attorney on retainer, so they can handle any issues that may escalate into court battles.

It’s important to remember that divorcing a narcissist is never easy and will require a lot of patience and perseverance on your part. But with the right legal representation and preparation, you can ensure that your rights and the well-being of your children are protected.

Divorcing a Narcissist is hard

Divorcing a Narcissist is a daunting and treacherous journey, one that requires immense bravery and fortitude. It is not for the faint of heart. But, I implore you, dear reader, to remember that you are not alone. You are not the crazy one. You are not at fault. You have the strength within you to rise above this abominable situation.

My first words to you are: Good luck and may God be with you. But, my second words are a call to action. Buck up, gather your strength, and put on an ‘I don’t give a flying F’ attitude. Set firm boundaries and prepare for a long, arduous battle. Because, let me tell you, the only thing harder than being married to a Narcissist is divorcing one.

Narcissists thrive on control, on manipulation, on seeing their victims suffer. They will stop at nothing to make you feel small, insignificant, and crazy. But, I urge you, do not let them succeed. Remember that you are not alone, and that you have the power to rise above their toxic manipulations.

So, to my fellow sufferers of narcissistic spouses, I say this: Hold on tight, stay strong, and never give up. Together, we can emerge victorious from this dark and trying time.

Narcissists can be difficult to get away from

Narcissism is not just an ordinary personality trait, it is a disorder that often coexists with other personality disorders such as Bipolar, Borderline, and Psychopathy. Narcissists come in all shapes and sizes, and it can be difficult to identify them as they can be very charming and convincing. However, their true nature is revealed in their preoccupation with fantasies of limitless self-importance, success, and power. They exaggerate their accomplishments, popularity, and social importance, and exploit or take advantage of others for personal gain. They crave excessive admiration and require constant feeding of their egos. They divide people to conquer and gain power over them, and they will go to great lengths to sequester you from concerned friends and family. A major manipulation technique often used by narcissists is redefining reality by repeatedly fabricating fiction and presenting it as fact. They lie and present alternative facts, leading listeners to question their own understanding of reality. Victims often experience a twilight zone phenomenon. Narcissists make others pay for not giving them the agreement, admiration, and respect they feel entitled to. They expect automatic compliance from everyone around them, a trait often found in militant dictators. Narcissism is not only a disorder but a full-time circus that can make victims feel trapped in a never-ending cycle of manipulation and emotional abuse.

 

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